How to honor God in Dating

When you first start dating someone it can be a little nerve racking. Sometimes there can be a little trepidation as well because you just don't know what to expect. But overall, it's new and pretty exciting. Right away we tend to latch on to what we like about the person, especially if we're attracted to them, and look for all the good things and how this could work out.

But when choosing to date someone, let's not forget to ask God what He thinks. A lot of times we make decisions and then ask God to bless it. But when it comes to relationships, we should consult Him first.

Proverbs 3:6 says, "In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your path." Did you catch the key word in that verse? The word, ALL! And that includes who you date. Now, there's nothing wrong with sitting down and having a conversation with someone over coffee. But I think after your first date or two, you should talk to Him about that person.

Also, the word 'direct' in that verse means 'make smooth' or 'make straight'. He will help you to see the red flags you don't, and let you know if this person is a good fit for you. He will lead you down the right path. Ask Him from the beginning if you have the 'ok' to proceed. That is definitely one way to honor Him in dating.

Once you start spending time with a person and get to know them better, you naturally will become more attracted to them. And when you start becoming physical, oh the struggle! 😆

For the life of a Believer, sexual temptation can be one of the most frustrating things! When you're attracted to someone and really like them, and start to even fall in love with them, it can be hard to keep your hands off of them! 🙅🏽‍♀️

When Pauls writes those verses to the Thessalonian church, he is pleading with them to live a life of purity. Not to give into sexual immorality like everyone around them. He reminds them that because they do know God, they should conduct themselves differently.

Now, I can't tell you what the threshold of purity is. Yes, we know that scripture is clear about waiting until marriage to have sex. But purity is a heart issue. If you're being physical to the point of full arousal, perhaps that's too far. When things start to get hot, you should back off so you can cool down. Again, the Holy Spirit will convict your heart and let you know what's too far for you.

Keeping it pure because you know that you represent Christ is how to honor Him in dating.